Feeling defeated and considering giving up
Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2025 10:05 pm
Hello again, fellow fish enthusiasts and friends,
I'm back after a brief hiatus, but this time with a heavy heart and a broken spirit. My tank has completely melted down in just 12 hours, and I'm at a loss. I don't want to admit defeat, but I think it's time to face reality. I'm on the verge of giving up on the hobby, but I want to try one last time to set things right before I throw away all my hard work and say goodbye to Grosso.
I woke up this morning to find a large amount of Grosso's scales rotting off his right side. The pictures don't do it justice - it's worse than it looks. He's also got a weird, light-reflective film near his sprig. This wasn't happening last night before bed. I'd noticed a small white speck on his left side for a few days, but I was waiting to see what would happen. Big mistake.
My water parameters are all over the place. I use store-bought UV-sterilized freshwater with added electrolytes, but my pH is super acidic, hardness is through the roof, and I've got some nitrates but no nitrites or ammonia. I tested the store-bought water this morning, and it was fine, but my tank water is a disaster. I've got a ton of white, stringy algae and a thick biofilm on the spider wood. I know it rots over time, but I usually clean it with a toothbrush and boil it before putting it back in the tank.
I'm guessing my problem is with the filtration system. I've got a canister filter designed for a 10-gallon tank, and I set it up according to the manufacturer's instructions. It was working fine until last night, when it started making a weird noise like there was air in the system. I checked for clogs, but everything seems fine. I even made my own air stone out of lava rock to give Grosso a more natural feel.
I've been using almond leaf extract, stress coat, and a shrimp-safe liquid fertilizer for the plants. I also add beneficial bacteria after water changes. I've reduced Grosso's light time to 6 hours, and he's on a timer. The water is heated and at the right temperature.
I'm tired and upset, and I don't know what to do. I don't want to rip the whole tank apart and start over, and I don't want to replace the canister filter again. I'm not mechanically inclined enough to take it apart and fix it, and I don't want Grosso to suffer any more. He looks awful, and I feel awful for letting him get to this point. I feel like a total failure.
Can anyone offer some last-ditch advice or suggestions to help me save this tank and Grosso before I give up completely?
I'm back after a brief hiatus, but this time with a heavy heart and a broken spirit. My tank has completely melted down in just 12 hours, and I'm at a loss. I don't want to admit defeat, but I think it's time to face reality. I'm on the verge of giving up on the hobby, but I want to try one last time to set things right before I throw away all my hard work and say goodbye to Grosso.
I woke up this morning to find a large amount of Grosso's scales rotting off his right side. The pictures don't do it justice - it's worse than it looks. He's also got a weird, light-reflective film near his sprig. This wasn't happening last night before bed. I'd noticed a small white speck on his left side for a few days, but I was waiting to see what would happen. Big mistake.
My water parameters are all over the place. I use store-bought UV-sterilized freshwater with added electrolytes, but my pH is super acidic, hardness is through the roof, and I've got some nitrates but no nitrites or ammonia. I tested the store-bought water this morning, and it was fine, but my tank water is a disaster. I've got a ton of white, stringy algae and a thick biofilm on the spider wood. I know it rots over time, but I usually clean it with a toothbrush and boil it before putting it back in the tank.
I'm guessing my problem is with the filtration system. I've got a canister filter designed for a 10-gallon tank, and I set it up according to the manufacturer's instructions. It was working fine until last night, when it started making a weird noise like there was air in the system. I checked for clogs, but everything seems fine. I even made my own air stone out of lava rock to give Grosso a more natural feel.
I've been using almond leaf extract, stress coat, and a shrimp-safe liquid fertilizer for the plants. I also add beneficial bacteria after water changes. I've reduced Grosso's light time to 6 hours, and he's on a timer. The water is heated and at the right temperature.
I'm tired and upset, and I don't know what to do. I don't want to rip the whole tank apart and start over, and I don't want to replace the canister filter again. I'm not mechanically inclined enough to take it apart and fix it, and I don't want Grosso to suffer any more. He looks awful, and I feel awful for letting him get to this point. I feel like a total failure.
Can anyone offer some last-ditch advice or suggestions to help me save this tank and Grosso before I give up completely?